Unregistered
June 1st, 2005, 11:13 AM
My husband had sex with you when he was single. So what!
He had sex with a lot of girls while he was single!
Somehow along the line you decided that if he had sex with you all of those years ago, that must mean he was in love with you, that must mean that you had a relationship with him.
Well, I've got news for you honey; You only had sex. You were not special, you were one of hundreds of girls. That is what guys in rock bands do when they are single and on tour. They have sex with loads of women, it is one of the perks!
Now you spend all of your time stalking me. What did I do to you? I am not the one who had sex with you! I was dating someone else during the week he was sleeping with you. He was sleeping with other girls during that time as well. Why not fixate on them? All I did was marry him years later, and trust me, you were not at all a factor in that decision.
Listen, no matter how many times you show up where I am, follow me around, send me emails of photos of yourself, and call our house, he isn't going to leave me and go find you. He didn't want you as a girlfriend when he was single and he doesn't want you now that he is married.
He was trying really hard to be nice for a while, but now he thinks you are just crazy and annoying as well. You have ruined any chance of even being a friendly acquaintance of his at this point!
Do everyone a favor and focus on the relationship you are in and get over your strange fixation on my husband and my marriage. If you don't you may loose the one reality based relationship you do have and then you will just be all alone in your imaginary relationship.
Really, it is for your own good. Get over it.
He had sex with a lot of girls while he was single!
Somehow along the line you decided that if he had sex with you all of those years ago, that must mean he was in love with you, that must mean that you had a relationship with him.
Well, I've got news for you honey; You only had sex. You were not special, you were one of hundreds of girls. That is what guys in rock bands do when they are single and on tour. They have sex with loads of women, it is one of the perks!
Now you spend all of your time stalking me. What did I do to you? I am not the one who had sex with you! I was dating someone else during the week he was sleeping with you. He was sleeping with other girls during that time as well. Why not fixate on them? All I did was marry him years later, and trust me, you were not at all a factor in that decision.
Listen, no matter how many times you show up where I am, follow me around, send me emails of photos of yourself, and call our house, he isn't going to leave me and go find you. He didn't want you as a girlfriend when he was single and he doesn't want you now that he is married.
He was trying really hard to be nice for a while, but now he thinks you are just crazy and annoying as well. You have ruined any chance of even being a friendly acquaintance of his at this point!
Do everyone a favor and focus on the relationship you are in and get over your strange fixation on my husband and my marriage. If you don't you may loose the one reality based relationship you do have and then you will just be all alone in your imaginary relationship.
Really, it is for your own good. Get over it.